How to Have a Perfect Online Hot Date
Posted in: Love & Sex · Mon, Jun 23rd
If Miley Cyrus can do it, you can do it for sure. Online dating though it has become so popular that people of all ages and walks of life are now doing online dating. It is not "just" for the young or for people who love computers. Often as we get older, our social circles close in on us.
You must admit, online dating is an excellent way to widen it out a bit and meet some people with similar interests and preferences. So, let's get started!
1 Prepare a killer profile
First and foremost, your profile needs to be an honest and a true representation of who you are. For the love of human kind, upload a recent and accurate photo! Also find a balance that shares detail, but leaves people wanting to learn more. Be honest about who you want to meet/date. If smoking is a deal breaker, then you need to let the world know that.
Remember that you are trying to find someone to meet in the real world, these people each have the potential to get to know the "real you," so why not start off on the right foot from the very beginning?
2. Create a screen name that is interesting but not too sexy.
You want to avoid any hints of marriage or wanting to be married or have immediate sex like... let's cut the examples. Also a screen name that includes your name should also be avoided because the second reason for an alias is to avoid putting yourself out there too soon. You want to give your real name to the right person and not just everybody. Try a screen name that is based on your looks which is usually appealing to the potential person you'll meet. Or, avoid it all together, and use something obscure.
3. Avoid sending emails to all
It's been said that if you focus on one think, there is a greater possibility to succeed. This might be true even with online dating. You should focus only on those potential partners that appeal really interesting to you. Don't waist your time writing emails to every registered person with hope that someone will write back.
Important: When you do get an email, always wait at least 24 hours before you respond to your prospective date's e-mail. If you respond too quickly, he may get the impression that you are too desperate or that you have too much free time.
4. Take Your Time To Get To Know
Upon choosing the person, take your time and start slowly. I know it's too generic to ask those usual questions, but it works, at least in the first 2-3 mails. Then release your uniqueness and you may want to start getting interested in more personal questions.
5. Did you get her/his phone?
Good Job. Now you can really see the verbal abilities to the person and release the tensions by calling her/him. Just don't call the day before the date simply to arrange a place and time. Calling each other a few times will let you get a sense of how the other person communicates verbally. You will also finally get to hear his/her voice - for some, this can be a deal breaker. Have fun with it and use the phone calls as more time to get to know one another.
I hope these 5 tips have enlightened someone and remember: the more you know about someone before you meet them, the more comfortable you will be. And.. you know... Just be yourself.
